THIS
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This woman is putting you through the wringer, and you are going home to ask her what she wants to do. She doesn't know what she wants!


This is my wife. She's moved out and is having at least a EA if not PA and still doesnt know what she wants. Was stringing me along for a year and I was thinking there was a chance but she just wanted that power over me. Cruel to the extreme..
One you realize that YOUR WIFE IS LONGER THAT SWEET WOMAN YOU MARRIED
the clearer things become.

I've pretty much dumped my W in the last few weeks, gone total NC/dark and have openly discussed divorce with her and things are changing now. It feels good to get my balls back lol I'm trying to be Fonzie about it mostly but I can be a bit mean and cutting. I'm trying to work on that, its getting easier
although she's really fighting me right now. Its kinda scary what she has become.

NO ONE should have this much power over you. Women have us scared and wondering what to do as she controls us like a puppet-master.
Get your mojo back bro. You the man!


M-45
W-32
D-10 D-8
Together 11 years
Married 6 years
Separated 6/2017
ILYBINILWY 11/2016 (also nov 2011)
EA 11/16
PA Same time??
NC, detachment started 12/11/17
D aug 2019