Yes, I agree with Ginger. Don't be guided by the thought of - what will this mean for her? Does it mean I'm enabling her more, and she can go off and do X or Y.
Think more in terms of whether this is a good thing for you and for your S. Do you want to have your S with you every weekend. Does that work for you, does it work for him? If the answer is yes, go for it and don't even worry about what that may mean for your W.
Glad you have had a happy Xmas and hope you guys are enjoying the snow up there!
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
