When reading the posts from Zues, Maika and Sandi, I know, I'm in the right place for right kind of help. For example in Finland you wouldn't get this kind of help. Everyone just tells you get over it, plenty of fish in the sea, you're never going to save it. Maybe I'm not able to save my marriage but here my thoughts are not crushed totally. So thank you for being here and giving us hope on saving your marriages.

And in Finland if I was to talk about terms like WW or WAW...I would be laughed at.

Me:39 W:36
S:12 D:9
T:14 M:11
Separation:sep. 1 2017
D filed oct. 2017
D finalized july 2018
OM confirmed feb 2018
D finalized July 2018

The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.