Your not the ruler of the Olympian Gods, but rather the LBS's.
I will take your advice and continue to read this thread over and over until I completely understand it; so I can get out of my own way while DB'ing. Each sentence I read, I can think of an exact moment which happened during the past few months within my sitch.
M:30 W:28 T:9 MR:2.5 NoKids Seperation 1: 9/16-12/16 Move back in: 1/17 BD: 8/15 She moved out: 9/1