Yes, exactly. The rage, excessive anger reaction is a control method, and not a healthy one. This is the dynamic I need to break. This is the dynamic I WILL break.
We are heading back home now after the family visit. WaW talked to my family last night while I was putting the kids to bed a little bit, so they have a bit of her side of the story now. She is still upset that I didn’t start some of my changes before the BD and doesn’t think post BD changes mean anything. Marathon, not a sprint. Gotta keep repeating that to myself.
Me: Mid 40s W : Early 40s M:11 T:13 S, D, both 7-10 BD : 11/2017 Separation : 1/18