Even though we are a few days away from the new year, I wanted to stop by and wish you a Happy New Year! I know this year has been very difficult for you, but I am hoping that things might level out just a bit in the coming months so that you can get your footing. I want you to know that this is not about you at all...but all about him. He's broken, his empathy chip is broken and yes, he is acting out as a 2 year old in a very selfish way. When babies teethe, they can be miserable little ones and that is what your h is going through right now. In a way, he's grieving the loss of self and has to dig deep within his soul to find the real him and come to realize that as a child, he was not responsible for the reasons he was emotionally stunted. I hope he finds himself and can move forward and heal.
Hunny, you are going to be okay. It just takes time. We all have or gone through this and we are here for you. Don't be afraid to ask questions, vent or just to post updates. You are part of a huge family of people who are caring, understanding and "fixers". We are here for you.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
