Wife wont admit to affair and its driving me nuts!

[Morbo]

"I didn't choose this road, and I am committed to marriage in all but a few extreme situations; unfortunately this road was given to me and I have been faced with one of those situations. I'd prefer to leave it there as my goal is to avoid unnecessary damage to the relationships and family that remain."

I like this.

I know my parents are going to figure it out anyway, it will be made clear to them without going into details.
I think my W wants us to all to hang out when they come over but that is SO not happening. She's going to know the consequences of her actions and lies. She's lost her husband, she's lost my family.
Her decision, her loss, I think she's finally going to get a wakeup call.