job, I've stopped the pressuring. The first few months were a beg and plead fest but as you know that didn't do anything but make the situation worse.
Gordie, Yoy are right they are all depressed, selfish and their moral compasses are broken or even missing.
OwnIt, I am at the beginning so maybe the niceness will be replaced by a little more monstering Or he may just continue to avoid me. The last few times he was around me he couldn't get away from me fast enough.
sjohns6, Thank you! Like your W, my H is now the complete opposite of who he was before. Even though they aren't acting as bad as others it is still devastating.
Talking to that woman on Christmas I almost felt guilty that my H is not the MLC monster her friend's husband is. Especially when she said I should consider myself lucky. Because I don't. Mine may not be the most heinous MLC story around but it is still hard for me. I think they all bite.
