You are both right. She has taken to OM2 to some of our places. I didn’t feel angry about this but sad. What made me angry was when she took OM2 with her to places that I take the kids.
Re sex, I think AP is right and I don’t want her to use sex to reel me back in. She has said she wants to feel if there is something there but I do not want to be in a “taste test” compared to OM2. Yuck.
Journaling:
The apartment I liked is no longer available. I went to see a different one today. I had to tell stbx as we need to further separate finances to facilitate my move. She shed some tears but I was business like.
The superintendent asked why I was moving and I told him. He said he too had a cheating w. He was married 20+ years and caught her in the act and threw them out. Their son was a teen so could choose his custodial parent and chose his dad and they never spoke to her again.
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving
