You and your family share an odd dynamic...I am talking about the family you have with your wife and kids, and your family relationship with your sister... And I bet your wife and brother-in-law think so too... And I would not be surprised if they talk about it... It may even be a reason they connected with each other...

It is also odd to me that your coach is advising you to keep the dysfunction as is because she/he is concerned your wife will file for divorce...

I would not be surprised if your brother-in-law and wife end up together when they are good and ready... And your kids can continue to enjoy their relationship with their cousins, which seems to be what is most important to you... They may even become step-siblings... Imagine that...

Every time I come to read the latest in your situation, I hope to find that you have finally turned over a new leaf... I am thinking that will never happen because you don't care to have a new, better relationship with your WW... You simply hope to hold on to your WW and marriage no matter what... Even if the dynamic is not healthy for any one... Including your children...

Last edited by Cadet; 12/28/17 08:59 AM. Reason: Start a new thread message