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He felt alive and for the first time excited because he didnt know what was going to come next. He just needed to leave the rut of his normal routine.


I agree I think this is definately in play and also I really great analogy. Towards the end my W was stressed out about everything and all she wanted to do was escape. She couldn't handle the normal stresses of every day life and I think she felt like she was in a rut. Even the dogs were in her crosshairs smile

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My marriage was like yours in the case that i never abused her, and was a good husband and father, just didnt take the nagging seriously enough, because there wasnt enough in my eyes to see concern.


We won't let that happen again will we smile smile smile smile

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Best thing we can do is learn from our mistakes, and become a better person.


AMEN!!! Keep on keeping on!


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018