Based on what you write, I think you have a decent shot at a reconnected marriage - but it kind of depends on her and her realizations - the issue is that it could take longer than what you are going to wait, like described in the article (even though she doesn't have an AP). But at least you seem to have a solid ground and she really seems to be lost.
I don't pull any punches around here, everything I say is not fabricated. That is the beauty of working through your issues on the board I have no reason to lie. If I had to guess I am sure she has had a few flings......TBH though I kinda knew it was going to happen. IMO there would be no way for her to realize what she had lost or to find out what kind of husband/father I am without talking/getting to know, or whatever with other men.
To her credit she is not rubbing it in my face or exposing my children to them if it is happening and just over the top disrespecting me as what is happening with other sitch's.
Ic your not the first person to say I have shot but I will need to be more patient than I have ever been before. I think some of this comes easy to me because I am a pretty laid back person and it takes a lot to get me fired up and angry....hence I can lovingly detach like a champ!
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Regardless, you have shown quite a bit of growth, you realize your shortcomings and traits which require improvement. You will be a superb partner in the future regardless who you are going to be with.
I hope so and I plan on continuing to seek council from the board when I feel as though I am being weak with my shortcomings!
I always thought I was a good partner before but hopefully now I will be even better!!
