My youngest is 9 so it has been 9 years of my needs coming last which entailed me to invest nothing in her needs hence, here I am.
Dude I can totally relate, eventually I just kinda shut down as well. TBH though I never addressed how I felt because of fear of what would happen. I realize now I should have. Nothing was going to get better with that attitude so for that I am guilty.
I remember trying to initiate sex and getting the I am tired and after taking care of the kids and myself I don't want any more responsibility to take care of you. Essentially the stars, the moon and the sun had to be aligned to make it happen or it was a quickie at 7:30 pm with bedroom door locked and the kids watching TV. Then when we didn't have the kids around she just wanted to lay around in her PJ's and not do anything.
I think AS said something once that the only difference between us and them is that they just acted on their feelings first.
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The dating poll is going to be filled with a lot of WWs jilted by there young affair partners lol! Lucky us lol!
There is definately not going to be shortage that's for sure. Hopefully they are out of the fog by the time we find them!
