Based on what you write, I think you have a decent shot at a reconnected marriage - but it kind of depends on her and her realizations - the issue is that it could take longer than what you are going to wait, like described in the article (even though she doesn't have an AP). But at least you seem to have a solid ground and she really seems to be lost.
Regardless, you have shown quite a bit of growth, you realize your shortcomings and traits which require improvement. You will be a superb partner in the future regardless who you are going to be with.
In my thirties, BDd 2017, divorced 2 young kids new relationship
