Yes I want my W back but it's her that needs to do all the work to make that happen, I feel we all know here what needs to happen to prove she is worthy but I'm not focusing on that any more.
My situation is possibly one in which there is very little chance of RC but I continue to stand as it's the right thing to do, I will not let my family down and she will shoulder all the responsibility for that.
I'm posting again now as a change in my outlook as forced me to reexamine how I handle it. I seem to have reached that point where sandi, AS and 25 to say a few told me I needed to get to, will anything change? Possibly not but that no longer concerns me.
I remain positive and confident in standing errelevent of the outcome, as you say "feel sad for the OP, you know what is to come"...
Mark.
DR'ing started March 2017
Don't blow the last bridge up from fantasy island, act "as if".
