Tell her. You bottling it up will just enrage you...
Trying not to bottle it up. Also don't know how to have this conversation with her. I have zero trust over anything, things have devolved that much, and anything I ever say just escalates the situation. V says "parallel parent" and that's what I'm trying.
There's also "don't let her press your buttons" and that's also what I'm trying. If I complain about what she's doing, I just let her see that she can still push buttons.
