Thanks, 1 foot in front of the other every day. Continuing to work on detachment as it really is a process.
Met my buddy out for a couple of drinks last night. My W, his EX W and another guy that wasn't their we all used to hang out as a couples. He told me saw my W out 1 afternoon with some of her teacher friends a couple weeks ago. She came over gave him a hug and I guess during the course of their conversation asked how we were doing. He told me my W commented that I would thank in her 10 years. I guess meaning waiting to do this until our children were grown and out of the house which is what his W did to him.
Truthfully I didn't have much of a reaction. I think I feel a little down this morning about that and the FB stuff but writing about it here makes me feel better. It really is a roller coaster of a ride and a tremendous learning experience as well.
On a positive note my buddy and I did spend some time talking about the new woman in his lift, how he met her etc so that was cool to hear and talk to someone on the other side. When him and his W got D it was ugly, she didn't drag it out and had so much anger towards him that she plotted theri children against him.
