job and Hawho,

Thank you for the warnings of reconciling too early in the process...or too quickly...I don't think I'm in danger of that right now...but will certainly put that in the back of my brain...to take things very, very slowly...if that day every does come.

Team Gordie:

You guys are the best. This has been a rough week, and I feel like you all listened and gave me a lot of thoughtful responses. I really do listen to you and if you could hear some of my IRL conversations, you'd "see" your advice played out.


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving