I thought my last thread would be the final one in regards of ex-h as we did not have much contact anymore and our goal has been reached ( in regard of the children' s future). It seem like he will not stop his financial responsability until all 4 are done school. And even so, i think he will continue to help me personally unless i get involve with someone else. (Only an opinion of mine).
Ob the 23rd, ex-h took my 2 youngest out for supper. On the 24th, we were invited to join my sister for supper and play a few games. On the 25th, Son and gf brought D2's car back. They had supper with us and i drove them back to Timmins.
Eventho we had no plans until the 29th, it turned out really nice.
It was a sad Christmas for many around here. Many tragedy took place and it made us appreciate our time together even more.
A couple of my friends lost there son to suicide. Another lost his daughter to disease. A neighbour lost his garage to fire and part of his house. A teacher has been ban from teaching for personal reason ( mlcer ) while her husband is still teaching at the same establishment and trying to keep himself together for their 2 children..
It' s a small town and everyone knows everybody elses' s business but it also touches us more because they are friends.
My son wrote a very nice tribute to our family! How much we mean to him and all the progress of each one through the years gone by! They make me soooo proud!!
Well, that' s it for now! I' m excited for the 29th. Together at last!!
Hope your Christmas was filled with love, laughter, gratitude and appreciation. There is always a few moments that will be remembered in a warm and loving ways.. May you find comfort and strenght in those moments!!
