Originally Posted By: AndrewP
So - don't compare yourself to OM2. It's not that she's choosing him over you, it's that - and if you think back to the very beginning of your problems - she's choosing "not you" as sad as may make you.


AndrewP--thanks for the 2x4/truth dart...you are right that I am too focused on OM2...and that she is choosing "not Gordie"....sad, as you say, but true. And I know I'm not alone in this front, but her choice of men just baffles me...and frustrates me...and infuriates me...particularly because she thinks it's such a great idea for OM2 to be involved with the kids. But you are right...have to take my eyes off of that train wreck.


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving