There is a sense in which the more badly behaved the wayward is the harder it hits. However the other side of that is that the surer we become of our direction.
The harder we work on ourselves, the more GAL we do and the extreme care we take then the more the growth we make.
Post traumatic growth is real and tangible. I am experiencing it.
It's paradoxical, for a while I lost my connection to my higher power and I felt lonely. Losing my aged ma and pa leaves me the senior member of my family. I certainly wasn't any kind of leader before this.
I have observed here that it is ALWAYS the LBS that decides it's finished. Often at the end of it, we have outgrown the wayward.
That is how it is, I do believe that.
That WW was attracted to you is a given and that attraction can return, it's a scarey thought though. So for some staying unattractive (grey rock) is ideal, however I use breeze block that is grey brick wall with a much improved V behind.
And let's think about OP, either they are duped or new fodder and an affair down. Why do I say affair down? Who would be with someone in an R even if they say they are S? Especially if that S is in house!
Triangulation that's standard makes the wayward feels good. The BIT haunts my FB page, makes me smile. She has copied my style and wears my clothes, even my jewellery........ Gone blonde, wears black bardot tops and heart shaped jewellery.
Makes me roar with laughter.
Feel sad for the OP, you know what is to come.
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW