D..I cant help peeing in the backyard especially in the moonlight, its territorial, primal...or something lol

Hey J9, glad you had a great christmas. We have a very similar story. I have 2 girls 10 and 8 and they spent Christmas eve and day with me. We had a great time. Its amazing what we are capable of. I too invited my W to hang out but she made her choice to do whatever she did both days. I have no interest tbh. Her attitude is incredibly similar to mine, I've been reading through your threads.
We do differ in that I believe that my W is having at least an EA if not more with her boss the last year. We also separated on 6/17.

You are 100% doing the right thing. Detachment, GAL,setting personal goals, thinking of the future, all the good stuff.
Good luck!


M-45
W-32
D-10 D-8
Together 11 years
Married 6 years
Separated 6/2017
ILYBINILWY 11/2016 (also nov 2011)
EA 11/16
PA Same time??
NC, detachment started 12/11/17
D aug 2019