There are some nasty MLCers but as job points out, there are different flavors. I think SBJ and I have “nice” non-monster spouses. Yet, all are depressed and selfish and their moral compasses are broken. I think we all compare and I find it helpful to learn from others’ experiences.
Job,
I find your comment about guilt interesting. I see no level of guilt in my spouse and maybe that’s why she’s nice. I never thought of that.
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving