Thank you Sandi, you help is much appreciated. I will follow DR and this board and see what happens.

Updating:

A check came in the mail and it was a tax refund of some kind and it was addressed to both me and the W and normally this would be a little discussion about how W deserves half. But instead she just signed it and left it for me and did not ask for any part of it. This is just way out of the norm.

MIL gave my W a card on xmas and it was given to both me and my W and she never told me. Last night after work I see money on the dining room table in front of my seat and I asked her what is this she said it was a gift from her mother. This also is something new, but of course I have to ask her what it is she will not tell me unless I ask.

Went out last night to a friends house for dinner then out to bowling with other friends. My parents had cancelled dinner plans. Tonight its going to be gym then off to have some drinks with friends. I am off of work for a few days so I am going to make the best of it.

Looking forward to NYE as I am going to a friend that has a huge house and the party is really fun...no drama.


M:52 W:49
D:26 S:24 S:23 D:20
ILYBNILWY 5/28/17
Still living together
W filed 1/5/18
W moved out 8/24/18
D final 9/18/20