J - I’m guessing it’s worth to get the NUTS book huh? I’m thinking about it. I like your list. I need to do something similar.
You asked a lot of good questions. I don’t have any answers.
I think the OM question is the one that bothers me most in terms of what to do. Am I a chump if I do a few things with her, even if it’s for the kids. Am I enabling cake eating? Am I showing self respect? Because if OM or even casual dating or whatever was confirmed then I would do things differently. There is no way for me to find out now unless she admits it. So what do you do?
I’m guessing your position to stand for the MR for longer has been clarified huh?
