hey Gordie. I feel for you brother. Those changes in emotions towards your W is only normal. Like many others said use it as fuel to move on to your final place. a place of strength and peace. I'm sure you were told on day one here that this is a marathon and it is the hardest thing you will ever go through.
I feel your pain but I also see your strength. I bet you know more now about yourself than you ever did before. that is the gift her MLC is giving you. You are a better dad and person.
Keep to your boundaries about OM2, avoid her train wreck and continue to love those kids. They are watching both of you. You need to be the rock and not the soft cake.
merry Christmas to you and your family. 2018 is a new year. A Gordie year.
M51 XW43 (38 at bd) BD1 MAY 30 2015 BD2 JUNE 25 2015 by text moved out Aug 2 2015 left both Daughters 13 and 15 (now 18-20) Her divorce Final July 26 2016 Last time she saw her kids Aug 2 2015