Sotto, thank you for taking the time to help me. I believe that ultimately I will be the one to have to move out if and when it comes to that. I am trying to find peace in this decision. There is a major conflict deep down in my soul right now but I do know what path I must follow even though my heart is telling me otherwise. I know I am not ready to file for divorce myself although I do think that I am going to have to head in this direction. I would do it because I do not see a continuation of the current situation as a healthy alternative and not to just get a reaction out of my W.
The funny thing is that if I had moved out right after BD around march, my W would have been fine with it. Financially, moving out is going to be very difficult but the emotional toll right now is costing me more.
