Gordie #15: closing the cake shop

[Gordie]

Vapo,

I have gotten two responses. Most commonly, it ends the conversation. She says nothing. One time, we had an extended conversation about why I was against open marriage. I was flabbergasted that she actually asked me to articulate why. As if she doesn’t know me and my belief system. I was respectful and non judgmental and left it that we no longer believe the same things on this topic. Here’s an eye opener: she believes open M would only work if she could sleep with whom ever but I and other partners would be exclusive to her. Absolutely crazy.

P.S. I am not a screamer but went on a drive today and screamed and screamed...thank you.