sandi2, I am ready to back up these words with actions but TBH I am still figuring what that entails. I don't want to be the one to leave the house but I haven't been able to get her to move out either. She has tried to act like everything is fine. She has tried to give me hugs but I all I say is I can't and walk away. She has also tried to cuddle with me in bed but I just roll over and keep my back to her.
I am unsure how to act without being too cold and angry. I could use some advice in this area. Do I confront her again about a decision at some point or just keep doing my own thing. Trying to figure out what I should be doing at this point. Thank you for sticking with me. I know I haven't been good at what I need to do but I am ready. I do not want to live another year like last year.
