Originally Posted By: Gordie
Vapo,

Thanks. My reply to stbx is: “I will not be in an open M or three way R.” Most recently, I also said: “I will not sleep with another man’s GF.” I look her in the eye and say this calmly and directly...and then walk away.


I just have to ask... What did she reply to this?

Yeah, screaming helps, heaps. Use a pillow or better yet on a solitary mountain trail, give it a good scream. Works wonders...