Thanks for all tge great replies, just what i needed.

Good interaction with W today. No snarkiness, stayed cool, pleasant but distant . She was asking a lot about I was doing but I didn't really ask her much.

I'm reading up on detaching, NC etc and I may be getting a handle on this finally..She IS crazy leaving this guy go! Lol

M-45
W-32
D-10 D-8
Together 11 years
Married 6 years
Separated 6/2017
ILYBINILWY 11/2016 (also nov 2011)
EA 11/16
PA Same time??
NC, detachment started 12/11/17
D aug 2019