Hi LH19, I shouldnt have messaged her, it was a mistake.
A moment of weakness

I'm reading up on detachment and trying to go NC as best I can.
I'm not sure if I'm getting it right but I'll keep trying.
I'm following Sandi's rules too etc

M-45
W-32
D-10 D-8
Together 11 years
Married 6 years
Separated 6/2017
ILYBINILWY 11/2016 (also nov 2011)
EA 11/16
PA Same time??
NC, detachment started 12/11/17
D aug 2019