Thanks, Joseph, thats what I'm thinking too, go the high road.
I'll keep with the NC, its actually easier than I thought especially now that I dont believe a word she says and have lost a lot of respect for her. Her loss..
M-45 W-32 D-10 D-8 Together 11 years Married 6 years Separated 6/2017 ILYBINILWY 11/2016 (also nov 2011) EA 11/16 PA Same time?? NC, detachment started 12/11/17 D aug 2019