Truthfully I did think about a quick little strike to the hose but since violence is usually frowned upon I took an alternate route. I will be heading to the gym in about an hour so I will release it their.
I agree, I am definately not whistling zippidity do dah and it is probably more authentic and definately not hegative. I probably didn't articualte myself clearly. My goal through this process (if/when the D happens) is for my children to feel safe and comfortable with my W and I being in the same room with each other, interacting, etc. I never want them to feel uncomfortable around us.
Honestly I did/do feel sad for her...I am a compassionate person and as her husband, watching from a distance, it is painful to see her go through this process. When I think about trying to step in and intervening, saying something I revert back to these sentences about detaching:
Detachment is the: * Ability to allow people, places or things the freedom to be themselves. * Holding back from the need to rescue, save or fix another person from being sick, dysfunctional or irrational. * Giving another person "the space" to be herself.
Anyway, since I am off for the next 2 weeks I started reading "Hold On To Your Nuts" and am working on my Non-negotiable, Unalteredable Terms for myself. I thought it was a good way to start 2018!
