I don't see DB as letting the other see you don't want them, on the contrary.
It's working on you to become a better partner and the reason for that is wanting a new better R from the stance of being the person only a fool would leave.
Pretending you don't want R is a game, an unpleasant one. Being ok if a new R comes and being ok if it doesn't (detaching from the outcome) is very different. It's strong and positive.
You want R? You want to resolve this? Then I think it has to be work on you to do that. Permanent shift! Permanent.....
That's the most important thing of all.
Not change which can drift back, but shift which drives you forward.
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
