Thank you V - I really appreciate your kind words. It's good to be pulled back from destructive self indulgences. We had a nice Christmas morning, and they are off to their father's for a few hours now. I think I will take your advice and let things sit, while I have a bath and maybe a nice nap as I didn't sleep well last night. I'll have the day to recharge and be ready for Christmas dinner with my girls this evening.

A very Merry Christmas to you and yours!


Me : 42
Him : 43
M : 18, T : 19
D13, D11
4/16 1st BD (ILYB)
11/16 H wants s, moves out of br
1/17 H rents house & moves out
2/17 OW (he denies PA but EA last winter)
5/17 I filed for D 7/17 D Final