I'm with you on this too FastCars, the holiday season definitely doesn't soften their hearts...my 25 wedding Anniversary was on the 23rd and there was a hardening of my H heart if anything.

My H doesn't do emotion...the more I show, the more he crawls into his shell.

Have a happy Christmas.

Me 50 H 48
S 23 S 21 D 19
Together 31 years
Married 25 years
Separated April 2009 Reconciled 2010
Separated September 2017