On Friday made pizza with my girls and watched "Pride and Prejudice and Zombies". My W was home and joined us for the movie and then went back to her work on the computer.
On Saturday, my W invited some girls who are the daughters of somebody she is desperately trying to make friends with. I was a little annoyed, but didn't show it because my W was spending more time with somebody else's daughters than our own. Because my W invited them without telling me, I mentioned to my W that I planned on going out to see Christmas lights and do some shopping with our girls at 6pm. My W said, "But we're going out to eat with friends." Our friends did ask me a week ago if we were available, but never followed up with me. My W and her are very close so they were talking but my W never told me. I told my W I would skip. So I went with girls and my W went out to eat with friends.
We got home just before W at about 9pm. W was home soon after. My dinner with my three girls was half the price my W paid for herself. My W did ask what I did, which was a first since she has pretty much not asked me what I've been doing. She also mentioned that where they went to eat is too expensive.
We share the bathroom, and now my W undresses in the shower section, which has a separate wall so I don't see her naked.
On Sunday we did crossfit in the morning. When exercising my W touched me.
Then I made lasagna for Christmas. My W cleaned the house and set the table. We are hosting about 20 people for Christmas tomorrow.
My W is making plans to go to a Christmas Eve mass tonight, and actually I'm going to go not to be with her, but because I want to. For each event, I ask myself what I want and that's how I act without worrying about W.
