After that session the she told me that she won't be seeing the kids and I on Christmas eve and Christmas Day. She just said it's OK for some families, but not her (she didn't ask me what I wanted). Now she's told S17 - she may come on Christmas day. I had planned to not let her come over on Christmas day. She has O/M if she's moving on then - keep going. I'm really confused. If I don't have her over - she can't see what she's missing.
I'll leave it and see what happens.
Merry Christmas everyone
I think this is one of the instances where for your kids, she can come over (obviously with OM) for Christmas. I think you just leave the "door open" in that she can come, but it is up to her. Regardless of her coming or not, you do your thing with the kids.
