Merry Christmas to all in DB land. 6 months post BD and Christmas time and I can't believe how good I feel!!
Had step-daughter, son-in-law and 3 grandkids and H's first wife (she has become a friend) over for Christmas dinner yesterday. This is still my family! I am not giving them up either. H will be with them tomorrow. I had a delightful evening with them all and this will become one of my new traditions going forward.
Maybe weird since it's still pretty recent but I find I'm not missing H much anymore and didn't miss him at all at my Christmas dinner.
Now off to a resort with a good friend for the next few days. Life is good!
Merry Christmas and may you all find some joy and peace.