Thanks M....hanging strong and I plan on having a few drinks!

W just texted me and asked what the plans where for tonight, so I told here what we were doing. She then asked me what expectations do the girls have for tonight and told her none as I never mentioned her coming over or any plans. She then said I don't know if there's a point in her coming over then. I told her that she has not come up in conversation and it is strictly up to her on what she wants to do. W indicated that she would pass then and we just discussed the coordination of her dropping off the gifts. There was no way I was going to tell her she needs to be here, etc. Her choice her decision, not mine.

I then told her we can coordinate tomorrow for a time for her to get them. She texted back and asked me to take pictures and videos of them opening up gifts.

So I am not angry, just dissapointed in her. I am trying hard to stay neutral but I will never understand it.

Anyway, I am going to enjoy the rest of my evening! She made her choice.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018