((Chris)), I am so sorry you feel alone and depressed at this time of the year. I think Christmastime has been so commercialized and movies about being home with family, etc., that it adds to the pain for many people.
I'm not exactly sure how you meant your statement about being 30 and on the edge of divorce. Do not mark yourself as some type of failure. I'm not saying to put all the blame on your W, but neither can you take responsibility for her actions. Space and time away from her, will help you a lot. You are hurting now, b/c of the recent interactions with her.
I hope you will block her on your phone and seriously start moving forward. Stop listening to her high school tactics.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
If I didn’t have kids, I think I’d go NC too. Stay strong.
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving
It’s a “poor me” text. You’re supposed to feel sorry for her because reasons and give her some kibbles so she can feel better about herself. The truth is probably that she was either with OM or honestly WAS alone because OM had something better to do. Either way poor her
I phoned S17 on Xmas, had a nice chat. Asked him to pass the phone to D16, and while he was, my mother asked me for the phone to talk to S. I gave it to her, and instead of D16, W is on the phone! I guess she was looking for some kibble too. I didn't get the phone back until mom was talking to my daughter. Wasn't playing games, but I just didn't care to chat with W, so didn't go out of my way to make the effort. Feeling pretty good about that.
M:23 T:26 Me:53, Wife: 60 S:18 D:16 filed 7/16 W moved out 4/28/17
