Hi all, just an update. Life is good. I never thought i would post that !! Kids are ready for Xmas and tree is flashing away , fire is lit and im relaxing.
S22 is still working for me. S19 is loving college. D16 and D13 got A's and B's in November tests so all good there.
The company is doing well , i upgraded to a newer RR and bought the superbike of my dreams in the summer. So again all good there.
I started dating about a year and a half ago and that was a real experience!!!! Got on well with most ladies but no real spark. It was fun but then i met a really nice , funny , gorgoues lady about 8 months ago who i still with. We are getting on well. She met my sons after about 3 months but i thought is best to give it atleast 6 months for the girls. They have now met and get on really well.
Exw and I have not spoken for about a year now and only D13 keeps in touch with her. They see each other for about 3 hours a week.
It was a very tough time after BD but i can say that i am now happier.
The big lesson i have taken from this is to live your Life, be genuine and be the best you that you can be. In my case i have plenty of faults, and not ones like ' im too kind to others ' or the like, short tempered , grumpy , etc are much more like it BUT i do my best to recognise my faults and change.
This site and some of its members helped me through the heartache and trauma. My advice to others is to accept what is. You didn't ask for this BUT you can deal with it and get through it. We deserve to be happy and its ours to give ourselves.
Anyway , that's the update ( and motivational speech!!!) Happy Xmas to everyone on here, enjoy and 2018 is a new year and as we know , life can change very quickly.
