Rebuilding my life (ILYBNILWY? IDGAF)

[Coconut]

It's ok for you to make plans of you're own when you have her, you have no reason to feel guilty for not going if it's because there are other plans. Don't say no just to spite WW, but Do make a life with you and D. Go if you want and/or can, but don't go because you're being pressured.

I would let your D know what y'all will be doing, opening gifts fron Santa Christmas morning, having dinner with gma (your mom), Christmas night, etc, and let her know she will be seeing other gma and Aunt the next day.. If you get another request from someone else, just reply that you appreciate yhe invitation but you have plans and won't be able to attend.