CW is right. It’s not healthy, in a way, but it is too as you are giving yourself time to let go (detach). That is healthy it’s what you do in that time that can be destructive - which is why you should be gearing yourself to doing 100% the right thing at all times. If you fail, no big deal, keep going and don’t beat yourself up.
Surfer.
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