New LBS dealing with WW Part 2

[Surfer]

Joe

You may find texts etc drying up bit with that, so will the abuse. You can make peace when at war so this is good IMHO. Just go with it, stay calm. Be the best you and best dad. Don’t be tempted to chase any contact. Keep it all simple and distant to allow your wars to stop.

Going forward you want to get to being happy in your own space. So do the kids. If you can, things may have a chance of healing, they may not. You may even chose a life without her. All are options. But things certainly won’t improve when you are at war. Either way, after the war subsides you will, hopefully be able to work towards a much better relationship, than the one you have now, going forward.

Life get a heck of a lot better. Keep calm, stable and look after you and the kids. Also, don’t get too absorbed in the crappy feelings. It Christmas, give yourself a break from the hub that is DB’ing and have some fun.

Surfer.