It doesnt matter about her telling you in any event. They rarely do. They often don’t admit to anything even if you can prove it. This is ‘teenager’ mentality. “No I didn’t” then when you confront them with evidence they either accept it or stick to the lie. Anything you can not prove they will lie about in most cases.
Just accept it’s happened and decide how you want to handle it. You may never have proof. Or understand why, but you will get peace of mind in time.
Surfer.
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