New LBS dealing with WW Part 2

[Vanilla]

Joe

Truly this isn't NC. You can be NC but only if you block WW.

Let's just dispell a myth "you can't go NC if you have kids"

This is a fundamental misunderstanding of NC.

NC is about parallel parenting. There are ways of dealing with admin about kids, online calenders, my family wizard.

Having plans, communicating through third parties.

NC is about you and your emotions, about keeping you to you, not trying to discover the other. It is living your life with NC.

It is perfectly possible to be NC with kids. If you are choosing to receive emails or texts then excusing it because you have kids. That is an excuse not a reason.

OK there may be days when a child is ill or needs an emergency pickup. It's rare, it's admin. But NC is NC.

Parallel parenting is doing what you do for your children in your time and the other does the same. It is deciding to go to the play, the game because you want to go. Making plans for you and the kids on your dime. Following exactly what is court ordered and doing the best for your kids.

So saying "I can't do NC, we have kids" is an excuse.

Just saying

V