Help needed from Far-east.

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Why are you hugging and kissing her? She's in love with OM.

I kissed her forehead and embraced her like a friend support each other, nothing more. But, I get your point, it won't happen again.

Why are you trying to make her jealous. .

Like I said, before I found this DB web site, I was googling around and found that suggestion. It didn't work for my W, only made thing worse.


Yesterday, everything seemed to be ok. Three of us spent the day as usually. Me with my D or my W with my D. We didn't interact with each other much. Said no more than we have to.

Then at night, my W put on the dress she will wear for the next day. She walked out the closet and asked me and my D for opinion. My daughter and I suggested that she overdressed. She got so mad(at me mostly), undressed, went to sleep.

She texted me "I don't want you to stay here. I'm not happy. Please take all you need and leave." I didn't reply though.

At late night I heard her crying. So, I went in the bedroom and sit with her but we did't have any conversation at all until she stopped crying then I went back to bed. I guess I didn't do pursuing last night, I just want to make sure she didn't do stupid thing to herself.

Tomorrow, we all will go to Hong Kong for 3 day. Time to make my D happy again. However, I will detach as much as I can.

Do I have to be happy(or feel nothing) no matter what my W is feeling(especially sad)?

I just want to make sure I do the right thing next time.
Thank you.