So, not sure if I did right thing. I didn't really want to spend Xmas eve going for breakfast w W and kids, and then she leaves for rest of day and Xmas to possibly be with OM.

I texted her nicely to say it wasn't a good idea and she has lost her mind w me. She s now accusing me of something but she's really making me think that she's not having an affair. Guilting me. Normal way this ends is me apologizing.

What do you guys think?

M-45
W-32
D-10 D-8
Together 11 years
Married 6 years
Separated 6/2017
ILYBINILWY 11/2016 (also nov 2011)
EA 11/16
PA Same time??
NC, detachment started 12/11/17
D aug 2019